The Ex Outlet

“Kim Kardashian and Gabriel Aubry Split.”

What?! Didn’t they just start dating yesterday? Now she is “stepping out” with Kris Humphries. And wasn’t she just dating Miles Austin? What about that hot romp in Madrid with world famous soccer player Cristiano Ronaldo back in April? Wait, maybe she is back together with her ex-boyfriend Reggie Bush?

Kim is dating like a rock-star after her divorce from Damon Thomas and her heartbreaking split from Reggie Bush last year.

Is your dating life looking nothing like Kim’s? Read on to find out what she is doing right and how you can do it too.

1. Don’t confine yourself to a type. Ok, so her type might just be called good looking, but they are not all carbon copies of each other. She has dated two American football players, a preppy basketball player, a Portuguese soccer player, and a Canadian model…just this year. She recently said “I’d rather date someone with a good heart.” We agree.

Do you always date the same guy? The preppy player, the loner artist, or the wanna be cowboy? Time to expand your horizons and say yes to the next person who might not wear madras pants or have the accent you find super sexy. By testing new waters, you might have more fun than you ever could have imagined.

2. Keep it casual. Learn from Kim how to keep it casual. Notice she doesn’t seem clingy and is able to easily move from guy to guy. She keeps it fun, friendly and casual. She doesn’t mind being seen in public with her men, but she doesn’t take a public appearance as a prelude to a wedding. Learn from Kim and don’t look at every guy as Mr. Right, look at them as Mr. Right Now.

3. Always look your best. Although your pictures are unlikely to end up on the cover of US Magazine, they have a very high chance ending up on our favorite tabloid for everyday people… Facebook. Blow dry your hair, put on a little make-up, and get out of your comfort clothes. Other people will notice how great you look and they will want to get in on the good times too.

4. Put yourself out there. Not meeting guys sitting in your apartment watching The Real Housewives of New Jersey? Time to go out and meet these men you will be dating. Kim goes to clubs and has friends, colleagues, and her sisters set her up. If a club doesn’t do it for you, join a dating website or find a class that interests you. Ask your friends and family if they know anyone fun (remember Mr. Right Now, NOT Mr. Right) for you to go out with. Forget what your married friends tell you about stop looking and he will come when you least expect it. Start looking, and start looking now.